Ariana Grande and more women who own their sexuality through music

sexualitySexuality in pop music is a nuanced concept, especially with female artists. On the one hand, it’s empowering if an artist fully controls the sexual images she puts into the world (like Madonna). But it’s degrading if she’s only being provocative to appease her management—like Camila Cabello, who confessed last year she felt pressure to “sexualize” her image while in Fifth Harmony. It’s tricky to know what version of pop sexuality you’re watching—natural or forced—because they look the same on paper. And they sound the same, too. If an artist has a say (or conviction) in the words she sings, the track is sex-positive. But if the sexuality is manufactured—even just a word—it’s problematic.

Ariana Grande’s latest single “God Is a Woman” is a prime example of a song that’s undeniably sex-positive. For one, the R&B slow-jam lists Grande as a writer, and she clarified her intentions on Twitter. “Sex is empowering. It’s the source of all life,” she wrote. You can check out Grande’s tweet for yourself, below:

These 10 other songs, below, fall into the same category as “God Is a Woman.” Take a listen for yourself.

Beyoncé, “Blow”

Beyoncé is one of the main songwriters on “Blow,” a sultry, discofied ode to oral sex. “Can you eat my skittles? It’s the sweetest in the middle,” Bey sings with power and confidence. Bow down.

Britney Spears, “Touch of My Hand”

The lolita-adjacent sexuality Spears exuded in the early stages of her career was arguably manufactured, but with her fourth album, In the Zone (2003), she firmly took back the power with eight songwriting credits. One of those tracks is “Touch of My Hand,” where Spears proclaims her love for masturbation over a heavy layer of Auto-Tune. Spears defended the song’s lyrics in a 2003 interviewwith Diane Sawyer, saying, “[Masturbation] is a reality that we have. [It’s] something sacred and something I wanted to write about.”

Madonna, “Erotica”

Madonna has always incorporated sex into her music, but she’s the most upfront about it on “Erotica,” a trip-hop song with lyrics like, “Give it up and let me have my way” and “Put your hands all over my body.” Madonna’s sexual manifesto is particularly important because she places women squarely in the driver’s seat. You absolutely hear that on “Erotica” (“I’m in charge and I treat you like a child,” she sings), but it’s also present on her tamer songs, like “Express Yourself”—”Don’t settle for second best, baby.”

The Aces, “Physical”

Singing about your lack of sexual interest can be sex-positive, too. Such is the case with “Physical,” an ’80s-tinged dance track where The Aces lament about their disinterest in fuckbuddy relationships. They want more, and they’re not afraid to ask for it.

Lady Gaga, “Sexx Dreams”

Gaga is another artist who’s always been sexually autonomous, but her mindset takes literal shape on “Sexxx Dreams,” a mid-tempo electro banger about, you guessed it, sex dreams. “When I lay in bed I touch myself and I think of you,” Gaga unapologetically shouts on the track as a synth beat pounds in the background. Consider the poker face officially dropped.

Demi Lovato, “Body Say”

In her November 2016 cover story for Glamour, Lovato revealed she had avoided writing about sex until “Body Say.” “I shied away from it,” she said. “I have parents that’ll hear my music! But I realized I’m leaving out an element of adulthood. I wrote ‘Body Say’ a few weeks later—that was liberating. I want to write more about it.” The song, which Lovato says is about being “in tune” with your body and knowing what you want, is sexual power at it finest (and most fun). “Speed it up, baby, make me sweat…If my body had a say, I wouldn’t turn away,” she sings.

Rihanna,” S&M”

Rihanna didn’t write “S&M,” but she made it clear in a 2011 interview with Rolling Stone that she strongly identifies with the song. “I like to be spanked,” she said. “Being tied up is fun. I like to keep it spontaneous.” Noted.

Nicki Minaj feat. Beyoncé, “Feelin’ Myself”

Minaj and Beyoncé were heavily involved in the writing of “Feeling Myself,” which can be interpreted as a hat-tip to masturbation.

Miley Cyrus, “Bang Me Box”

Cyrus’ psychedelic record Miley Cyrus & Her Dead Petz largely flew under the radar, but “Bang Me Box” is worth a second (and third) listen. On the track, Cyrus (who identifies as queer) waxes poetic about her desire for sex with a woman. It’s one of the most upfront songs about gay love in recent memory—and the fact that it came from a pop star as ubiquitous as Cyrus is pretty huge.

Marina and the Diamonds, “Sex Yeah”

On this bouncy electropop song, Marina and the Diamonds works toward breaking the sexual chains that a patriarchal society places on females. “If women were religiously recognized sexually, we wouldn’t have to feel the need to show our assets to feel free,” she sings. And it’s catchy, too.

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6 Singers you didn’t know could speak Spanish

SpanishThe chart-toppers in music as of late has been riddled with Spanish influence and with that hidden talents have come out of the works – like singers you had no idea could speak Spanish, spitting a whole verse like it was their mother tongue. Now whether they can actually speak the language of passion or not it another question. Whether they’re up for nights rehearsing their lines like a start-out actor or maybe they’ve hired the best spSpanisheacher in town, we’ll never know. From Drake crooning on a bachata beat to Beyoncé’s bilingual bangers, here are some artists you likely didn’t know sang on Spanish records.


Romeo Santos is one of Latin music’s biggest forces and throughout his career has stuck to singing strictly in Spanish. Despite having tons of a crossover appeal and reigning from The Bronx, the dude knows where his strengths lie which is why he got Drake to step into his world and croon in Spanish for 2014’s “Odio.”

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Pharrell gave J Balvin and the reggaeton scene a major co-sign by co-producing and featuring on the slinky ‘Safari’ track, handling the Spanish hook.

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Fifth Harmony

While Harmonizers know Fifth Harmony—who currently boast two Hispanic members with the departed Camilla Cabello also being Latina—have recorded some of their English songs in Spanish, but they made a clear move to the Latin-pop mainstream when they jumped on a track with the Spanish King himself, Pitbull on his track for ‘Por Favor.’

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Justin Bieber

Now that the song was a Top 5 hit worldwide for weeks, you probably do know that Justin Bieber sang in Spanish for the remix of Luis Fonsi and Daddy Yankee’s mega-hit ‘Despacito.’ We have to admit that Bieber sounds gooood en Español.

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During her B’Day and I Am…Sasha Fierce eras, Beyoncé was very into recording bilingual versions of her tracks. But her most recent venture was when she jumped onto J Balvin’s ‘Mi Gente’ and if the song wasn’t popular enough when it first dropped you can only imagine how quickly it blew up when Beyoncé decided to jump on board.

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Cardi B

THIS IS NOT A DRILL. Trust us we were just as surprised when we came across Miss Bodak Yellow shaking those ever so desirable hips to a sexy Spanish song with Ozuno. Is there anything Cardi B can’t do??

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Little Mix

Little Mix‘s sultry new song with CNCO, “Reggaetón Lento (Remix),” is garnering hundreds of thousands of views on Youtube, and for good reason. In an interview, the girls expressed how much they loved learning the Spanish verses and words. “It was just so much fun singing in Spanish,” they said. “We love learning other languages.”

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What the future holds for some of the top-eight 2016 Idol contestants

They may not have won this season’s hotly-contested Idols competition, but when we bump into some of the top eight contestants at the annual DSTV iRock in Rustenburg, they shared their  future plans with us.

Valentine tells that she had a great experience on Idols. “My experience on Idols was amazing. I learned a lot. I’m going back to school next year to study PR,” she told us.

Terra says he plans on doing some gigs over the festive season. “I’ve been doing a lot  since Idols and I plan on  releasing an album soon,” he shared.

Lucia told us that she was sad that she never got an opportunity to go to New York (as the top four did). But, she says, Idols taught her to fight for what she wants and work hard for it. “I also plan on releasing an album soon,” she said.

Idols runner-up, Thami says he was humbled by the experience of being on Idols. “I thank people for believing in me and voting for me. I did not think I would make it that far, it really meant a lot to me. I’m releasing my album very soon and people should look out for that,” he told us.